Walk away from drama...

Focus on money or somthing this year, avoid drama

There are people and things in this world that are extremely important and then there are people and things that aren’t. Unfortunately, distinguishing between the two can sometimes be a bit ambiguous and difficult. As a result, sometimes time and energy is wasted on irrelevant people and trivial things that in time won’t even matter anymore. The world is full of them…the fake, the haters, the unreliable, the inconsiderate, the unappreciative, and the list goes on. They are everywhere spreading their ‘trash’. There is no way to escape interactions with them. So then how do we deal?

If you come at these negative people with more negativity, it’s a sure fire way to perpetuate the negativity. I see this happen way too often and it really gets under my skin. If you really don’t care about someone and have moved on from something that they have done to you, you don’t need to corroborate it with words…it will be very apparent through your actions. You don’t need to put them on blast on social networks or anything else like that—it’s childish and has the opposite intended message. It’s not your job or responsibility to “make them pay” or teach them a lesson. When you set out to hurt people, most times you end up hurting yourself more or just looking childish like I said before. You also cannot teach anyone anything that they don’t want to learn.

Often times, dramatic people will target people who they think will help feed their need for drama. They enjoy being mad, complaining and arguing but would like you to think otherwise with their bogus claims of hating drama and having a low tolerance for people with the same negative characteristics they possess. People like that are just unhappy with themselves and try to spread the unhappiness to in some twisted way deal with their own feelings of inadequacies.

My suggestion is to just be the bigger person. It may seem like the better choice at the time would be to lash out and let your anger get the best of you but that is temporary. With that, in the end you are left with nothing. When you walk away, you leave foolishness right where you found it and your precious time and energy can be redirected to bigger and better things